“I’m not a princess”
It’s interesting to watch your daughter grow up. teenager. contradictions. She wears lace dresses with sneakers and heavy boots. she denies her beauty, but wears it proudly, accepting compliments with a cold “I know.” She doesn’t want to be a princess, but I don’t mind. I just look at how she grows. I want to take her in my hands and admire her endlessly. shower her with flowers, show her how I see her. “I’m not a princess, ” that’s what my daughter says
All feelings are layered on top of each other: you are an adult. you are a girl. I still want to be in my mother’s arms, but already. seems to be an adult for this. I remember this feeling, I see it reflected in my daughter. sometimes she comes up like a little kitten, snuggles timidly, and sometimes hisses at me like a cat when I hug her. She’s an adult now — I have a responsibility to respect boundaries.
“Dolls”
The desire to imitate is especially strong in adolescence. copying the clothes of an older sister or friend, copying behavior, imitation through makeup, hairstyle. Researchers say. that this is not only an attempt to learn new experiences, but also an attempt to separate from their parents. an attempt to show, “I’ve grown up, leave me alone.” it’s like an imitation of adult life under the “wing” of your parents. an attempt to try on something new. What do I see? my daughter copies without copying. (there must be mother’s pride here)). she repeats jokes after her older sister, wears the same clothes with her friend, buys those things that are especially popular among teenagers. I try to record these changes in order to preserve the memory of this period
“Under the red cloth”
Studies show that teenagers are more satisfied with being alone than people in their 20s and 30s. I see my daughter trying to be alone. she hides under the blanket, she goes out into the street alone and walks around there, studying objects that interest her. She often turns on her headphones to block out the world around her. Do I understand her? And how! As a teenager, I put a lock on my room door. After a while, it was filmed by my parents, but I cut myself off from them with the help of loud music. I am sure that loneliness is part of growing up, an opportunity to immerse myself in new sensations and emotions, an opportunity to survive a hormonal explosion. you just need to give this loneliness
“For you”
Despite the fact that my daughter has her own opinion, grows up, isolates herself, I, as the mother of a teenager, want to help, give warmth. I can do this not only through rare hugs (after all, you can’t hug a teenager so often — he resists), but also through knitting clothes. yes, it’s that simple. However, Tanya doesn’t always wear it, because while I’m knitting something to order, her opinion changes))
Room
Every person’s room should have its own room, its own corner, a place where you can put a personal diary without fear that someone will read it. The place where your dust will accumulate, where your creative disorder will be, should be inviolable. painted walls, furniture, autographs of friends, dirty socks under the bed. children are no longer children if they are teenagers
Прогулки
Таня любит гулять одна. Я помню себя в этом возрасте: как только начинался дождь, брала зонт и шла гулять, даже ночью.
Моя дочь так же предпочитает гулять одна. Она часто берет фотоаппарат, снимает природу. На мои вопросы отвечает, что ей не скучно гулять на природе, ей интересно.
Так и появилась идея. показать слияние с природой. Я уверена. что дети ближе к природе, чем мы, взрослые.
Фото проекты
Гендерный разрыв
